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Monday, November 07, 2005

Successful Love marriage

I have heard many people say that very few Love marriages last. Even statistics say that the success rate of love marriages is less than arranged marriages. I feel that this is because the partners expect too much from each other in a love marriage and they are not ready to adjust to changes which are bound to happen after marriage. The quality time that the partners spend with each other before marriage is a time when the generally try to exhibit their best part to the other person but when it comes to living together they notice the flaws which are hidden before.

As against this in an arranged marriage the partners are ready to adjust from the very beginning of the relationship. They strive to make the relationship stronger by adapting to the changed environment. This is the only reason I see that makes arranged marriage more successful than love marriage.

If people keep some points in their mind they can actually have a wonderful and successful love marriage. If they are ready to adjust a bit, are true to their partners and show their actual self before marriage there would be nothing to stop a successful Love marriage.

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